okay, i guess she'll shut up from now on! oh wait, that's nearly impossible. i recommend her to speak when necessary. on a safe side, just say 'yes or no'. these words are rather neutral. she's thinking. considering. finally, she's not going. i think it's right that she decided not to go. i guess if she turns up there, maybe you'll think that she has some agenda to be there.

"hey girl, don't bother! seriously, JUST WHATEVER!" i told her.

it's just hurtful when she knows that he has doubts in her. come on, she's just trying. she needs his support, NOT throwing a bucket of cold water on her..brr..does he has any idea how cold that can be? but well, good job for murdering that effort!

i continued, "but girl, sometimes i guess you're just rushing into things. you know changes don't just appear and you can't expect people to accept instantenously, right. it's not Christmas. i mean, even it is Christmas and if Santa ever appear in front of you, you still need time to accept the fact and the gift. you'll then appreciate the beauty of patience. so, promise me that you'll give it some time. you know what, i'm just glad weekend is here! we can hang out and spend some time together. go out and be under the sun. spend a little time with yourself, do something you like or enjoy. it helps, trust me!"